What is abstinence how does it help in birth control and preventing the spread of STI

Abstinence simply means not having sex, and refraining from sexual intercourse. For most people, abstinence is the absence of sexual contact altogether.  It is the healthiest way to avoid teen pregnancy and the best way to avoid contracting a sexually transmitted infection.

How does abstinence work?

Abstinence prevents pregnancy because sexual intercourse does not take place. It involves refraining from any activity that leads to an exchange of body fluids. Periodic abstinence is often used by couples who are practicing the fertility awareness method of birth control as a means of preventing pregnancy during the fertile period of a woman’s cycle.

How effective is abstinence?

Abstinence prevents pregnancy 100% of the time when practiced consistently. It is the most effective form of birth control.

What are the side effects or health risks?

There are no side effects or health risks related to abstinence.

What about sexually transmitted infections (STIs)?

Abstinence prevents the transmission of sexually transmitted infections 100% of the time when practiced appropriately and consistently.

Frequently Asked Questions About Abstinence:

How can I be successful at abstinence?

Abstinence is most successful when you are diligent and use planning within your relationships.
To make it easier, try some of the following ideas:

• Do things with friends or in groups
• Go on double dates
• Minimize physical affection that could lead to passion and desire, making it harder to abstain from sexual intercourse
• Avoid situations where you are alone

What about teenagers and abstinence?

Relationships that involve sexual intercourse are filled with physical, emotional, and psychological risks. Abstinence provides teenagers the opportunity to avoid those risks. Individuals who abstain from sexual intercourse during their teenage years tend to have fewer sexual partners in their future.

Remaining abstinent as a teenager means that you will be less likely to:

• Contract a sexually transmitted disease, which may also lead to infertility
• Develop cancer of the cervix
• Experience an unplanned pregnancy

How can my partner get to know me?

Sexual intercourse is not the only way two people can get to know each other. Too often, people open this door for drawing closer to one another only to regret the decision later, because they did not really know each other at all.
Intimacy can be developed through a variety of means such as:

• Talking and listening
• Sharing joys, hurts, dreams, goals, wishes and other aspects of life
• Honesty and respect for one another
• Having fun and playing together

Why should someone choose abstinence?

It’s chosen for a number of reasons, primarily it’s the best way to avoid being pregnancy or getting an STD. Other reasons:

• The honor of personal, moral, or religious beliefs
• Wait until they are married and in a monogamous and committed relationship
• Pursue school, career, and other activities
• To avoid pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases

How can I express my affection? Intimacy and affection can be expressed in a number of ways other than sexual intercourse. Kissing, hugging, massaging, and holding hands are some of the ways that couples express their affection in a physical manner.
Intimacy and affection can also be expressed in other ways such as:

• Conversations
• Cards, letters, and love notes
• Support in your partner’s activities
• Creative and fun dating
• The caution with any physical affection is that it can lead to passion and a desire for something more.

What are the pros and cons?

• The Pros of Abstinence include:
  • Has no side effects or health risks
  • Prevents pregnancy and the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases
  • Free
  • Reduces emotional and psychological challenges related to relationships that involve sexual activity
• The Cons of Abstinence:
  • Requires willpower and discipline

Want to Know More?

• Types of Birth Control
• Birth Control Failure
• Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)

Source:

NIH National Library of Medicine: Abstinence and abstinence-only education

Women’s Health Policy: Abstinence Education Programs: Definition, Funding and Impact on Teen Sexual Behavior

Is Abstinence for Me?

People are abstinent for many reasons, including preventing pregnancy. Whether you're thinking about being abstinent, you are abstinent, or you're just someone who's curious about it, you may have many questions.

• What Is Abstinence?
• How Does Abstinence Prevent Pregnancy?
• How Effective Is Abstinence?
• How Safe Is Abstinence?
• What Are the Benefits of Abstinence?
• What Are the Disadvantages of Abstinence?
• How Do I Talk with My Partner About Being Abstinent?
• How Can I Stay Abstinent?

What Is Abstinence?

You may have heard people talk about abstinence in different ways.

Some people think of abstinence as not having vaginal intercourse. They may enjoy other kinds of sex play that don't lead to pregnancy. This is better described as outercourse.

Some people define abstinence as not having vaginal intercourse when a woman might get pregnant. This is better described as period abstinence, which is one of the fertility awareness-based methods of birth control.

And some people define abstinence as not having any kind of sex play with a partner. This is the definition we use on these pages.

Being continuously abstinent is the only way to be absolutely sure that you won't have an unintended pregnancy or get a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

How Does Abstinence Prevent Pregnancy?

Abstinence prevents pregnancy by keeping sperm out of the vagina.

How Effective Is Abstinence?

Used continuously, abstinence is 100 percent effective in preventing pregnancy. It also prevents STIs.

How Safe Is Abstinence?

Abstinence is one of the safest ways to prevent pregnancy — there are no side effects.

What Are the Benefits of Abstinence?

• has no medical or hormonal side effects
• is free

Women and men abstain from sex play for many reasons — even after they've been sexually active. A couple may even choose to be abstinent after having had sex play with each other. The reasons people choose to be abstinent may change throughout life.

People choose abstinence to

• prevent pregnancy
• prevent STDs
• wait until they're ready for a sexual relationship
• wait to find the "right" partner
• have fun with romantic partners without sexual involvement
• focus on school, career, or extracurricular activities
• support personal, moral, or religious beliefs and values
• get over a breakup
• heal from the death of a partner
• follow medical advice during an illness or infection

Any woman or man can abstain from sex play. Many do so at various times in their lives. Some choose to abstain from sex play for a great part of their lives.

What Are the Disadvantages of Abstinence?

There are few disadvantages to abstinence.

• People may find it difficult to abstain for long periods of time.
• Women and men often end their abstinence without being prepared to protect themselves against pregnancy or infection.

How Do I Talk with My Partner About Being Abstinent?

Talking with your partner about your decision to abstain from sex play is important — whether or not you've had sex play before. Partners need to be honest with each other and make sexual decisions together. These are some of the best ways to keep a relationship happy. Even so, it may not be easy to do. You may feel awkward or embarrassed.

• It's best to talk about your feelings before things get sexual. For many people it's hard to be clear about what they want if they get aroused. It is helpful to think — ahead of time — about how you can say "no" to sex play. What behavior will be clear? What words will be best? You can practice saying the words out loud. Then think about how someone might respond to you.
• Take the time to consider fully what being abstinent will mean for you. It is important to know what you are thinking and feeling and what you need. Then you can tell your partner about it.
• Be straightforward about the limits you want to set.

Keep in mind that having sex is not the only way two people can get to know each other. Sex play is also not the only way couples can be close. People get closer as they build trust by:

• talking
• listening
• sharing
• being honest
• respecting each other's thoughts and feelings
• enjoying one another's company

Abstinence can only work when both partners agree to it. So it is also helpful to keep talking with each other about why you've agreed to abstain from sex play. Your relationship may change. And your decision to be abstinent may change, too.

How Can I Stay Abstinent?

Staying abstinent is a choice you make every day. There are ways to help yourself with that choice.

• Remind yourself why you chose to be abstinent.
• Think about the consequences.
• Don't reevaluate your decision to stay abstinent during sexually charged situations — stick with your decision until you can think about it with a clear head.

Abstinence can be difficult for some people. Women and men need to be clear about their reasons to stay abstinent. If you are tempted to have sex play, it helps to remember why you made the decision to be abstinent in the first place. How can you stay abstinent? Think about your answers to these questions:

• Am I clear about why I want to be abstinent?
• Am I aware of situations that could make staying abstinent difficult for me? Can I avoid them?
• Alcohol and other drugs can affect my judgment and decision-making ability. How do I feel about not using them?
• Are there people in my life I can talk to about my decision to be abstinent? Will they be supportive?

Most people stop being abstinent at some point in their lives. When you decide not to be abstinent, ask yourself

• Do I have information about other methods of birth control and do I have access to them?
• Do I know how to protect myself from STDs?

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